From Isolation to Paradise: Madux’s Journey to a New Life in Mexico
By Dez | My Deztination: Mexicos Trusted Residency + Relocation Expert
Moving to Mexico isn’t just about the paperwork.
For so many expats - especially creatives, LGBTQ+ individuals, and those seeking deeper alignment, it’s about reclaiming your life.
That was the case for Madux, a visionary creative and transgender artist who left the United States after years of feeling stuck, isolated, and unsupported. In a recent video interview with My Deztination founder Dez Kjolseth, Madux shares the raw truth of what it means to start over in a new country and how Dez helped make that journey possible.
Let’s dive into their story, and what it can teach you about your move to Mexico.
Click here to watch the full interview on my YouTube channel
“I Was Spiraling…” — Life Before the Move
“I was stuck, mentally and physically. Every option I explored led to a dead end. I was running out of time and energy.”
Before connecting with My Deztination, Madux spent months navigating conflicting advice, fake facilitators, and relocation horror stories online. They’d reached a breaking point - one shared by many expats who try to figure it all out alone.
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Book NowFinding Dez — A Different Kind of Relocation Support
“It was night and day… working with Dez was the first time I felt like I had someone who really saw me. Not just as a client, but as a person.”
Madux describes Dez as “grounded,” “present,” and “emotionally aware” - traits that made a huge difference when dealing with the intense and often intimidating Mexican bureaucracy.
Together, they worked through:
Mental health preparation
Most importantly, they built a relocation plan that centered who they were, not just where they were going..
Mexico as a Sanctuary for Trans & Queer Expats
“I’ve been so welcomed here. I walk around Puerto Vallarta and feel safe. That’s not something I could say back home.”
For LGBTQ+ travelers, especially trans men and women - Mexico offers a surprising level of safety and support, particularly in cities like:
In these areas, you’ll find:
Legal gender recognition
Public acceptance in wellness and creative spaces
An active queer community of locals and expats
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Download Now“It Wasn’t Just Logistics—It Was Emotional Support”
“Dez checked on me emotionally throughout the entire process. I wasn’t just a number. She cared.”
Madux emphasizes something many people don’t realize until it’s too late: moving countries is not just a logistical process - it’s a mental and emotional one.
Whether you’re escaping a system that doesn’t support you, grieving your past identity, or starting a life completely from scratch, the internal shifts matter just as much as your visa approval.
Building a New Life Rooted in Purpose
“I feel at peace. I’m creating again. I’m finally living my life on purpose.”
Madux now lives in Puerto Vallarta, running their coaching and creative practice, Mirrored Intelligence, from paradise. They’re growing a community, deepening their spiritual practice, and helping others awaken to their purpose - just like they did.
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Whether you’re LGBTQ+, creative, burned out, retired, or just ready for a different life - Madux’s story is proof that relocation isn’t just possible. It can be transformational.
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meet dez
Dez | My Deztination
Dez is the founder of My Deztination and Mexico’s trusted relocation advisor. With over seven years living in Mexico, she knows the importance of trustworthy and professional guidance & support. She specializes in personalized consultations, private neighborhood tours, and full-service relocation packages to help clients move to Mexico the easy way.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can I still use my U.S. passport with an “X” gender marker?
Yes — current U.S. passports with “X” or updated gender markers remain valid until expiration, unless voluntarily replaced or individually revoked. The recent Supreme Court ruling affects future renewals, not existing documents.
Do I have to declare my gender when applying for Mexican residency?
No — gender identity or expression is not part of Mexico’s residency or visa process. Your application is based on income, savings, family ties, or work—not gender markers or identity.
Is Mexico safe for transgender and nonbinary expats?
Mexico offers strong federal anti-discrimination laws and many LGBTQ+ friendly communities, including Puerto Vallarta, CDMX, and Oaxaca. While experiences vary by region, many expats find Mexico safer and more affirming than the current U.S. climate.